gifts of the Spirit

Spiritual gifts.


Whether we realize it or not, we all have our own opinions about them.


Their relevance.  Their existence.  


The way they're given.  The way they're exercised.


So many of our opinions are formed by negative experiences.  Usually from within the church.  


My first exposure the concept of divine healing came to me because I was "sick".  Born with a severe case of scoliosis, I underwent corrective surgery ten years ago.  This means I have an 18" scar down the middle of my back.  And to be honest, my x-rays look like I've strapped a pipe-bomb to my crooked spine.


(This makes traveling through airports a little more difficult for me than for you...)


God has used my disease to reach out to others.  My faith was strengthened through surgery, through rehab, through the many years of strength-training that followed.  I became a stronger person each time I put on a bathing suit or a shirt with a low back.


But when I was about eighteen years old, one of my childhood friends came home from "college".  I remember pulling into my driveway with him in the car as he began to tell me his "college", his "church", believed all sickness, all mental retardation, all disease, were demons.  He was being "trained" to call them out.  Divine healing.


I stopped the car and turned to the passenger seat.  Livid.  "Did you know I have a disease?" I remained calm.  But after years of being made fun of, after years of asking God why I had to be the one who had a disfigured body; asking why I was the one who was scarred, His answer had always been clear: My power will be made perfect through this... 


Though my faith was strengthened through endurance... all I wanted to do was cry.


The boy didn't know what to do.  I told him he was welcome to try and cast my demon out.  But I didn't think it was going anywhere.


No one would be surprised, then, if I told them I was skeptical on all levels of the workings of spiritual gifts.  


I have seen people fake being slain in the Spirit.  


I have listened as people spoke in tongues out loud, but there was no interpreter in sight.


I have stood by and listened as people spoke about prophetic dreams -- as if they were a gypsy looking into a glass ball.


I was a skeptic.


A skeptical lover of Christ.  


In 2009 I got sick.  Much different than scoliosis, I kept quiet about it for some time.  And then finally when I began to get scared, I went to a free medical clinic at EKU.  I knew what the doctors were worried about.  Something in me knew, after that first visit with a NP in Richmond, my life was about to change.


They thought I had cancer.


I had no medical insurance.  I was enrolled in college.  I had just lost thirty pounds and was training for a race.  Suddenly, I almost couldn't function anymore.


Then I met her.  Rocking babies in the nursery at church.  She wanted me to come and listen to her perform at a local coffee shop one Monday night.


Something in me knew I had to go.  No option.  Cancel all plans.  Go.


It was no coincidence that as I walked into the coffee shop, she was holding her stomach.  Explaining to someone she had found a tumor.


They thought she had cancer.


I prayed for her that night.  Straight out of my own fear and my own worry.  Knowing such a disease was not from God -- but neither was it a demon to be cast out.  What the enemy had meant to harm, the Lord our God was going to turn around and use for good.  And we were witnesses.


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Two years later, I have been diagnosed with an obscure sickness that is easily manageable and only occasionally annoying.  Two years later, my sweet friend has undergone surgery and chemo.  Her hair is back.  And she is smiling.  The most beautiful of women.  


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The concept of the correlation between sin and sickness came back around to me last year.  I was still suffering from this chronic sickness and I met a guy who believed, not that my sickness was a demon, but that I wasn't being healed because my faith wasn't strong enough.


Sometimes I stop and think about how someone who does not have Jesus in their heart must feel about these things.  How detrimental such religious beliefs can be to those who are still seeking and haven't yet found.  Seriously.  What part of, "you have acne, you must be possessed by a demon" would make you want to know Jesus?


Anyway.


It was about this time last summer I was asked to attend a leadership training in Pawleys Island, South Carolina.  I agreed to go.  But it wasn't until I got in the van and was halfway to our destination that I heard how intensely this particular group of people operated in the gifts of the Spirit.


I stared at my seat belt.  And the road sign, which said we had just entered North Carolina.  I was stuck.  On my way to interact with people who would surely tell me my faith was lacking and the disease in my belly was attributed to my lack of faith and then whisper weird words in my ears.  Was I scared?  Heck yes I was.


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I was prayed for multiple times that week.  For strength and courage.  I was told I was Moses.  Esther.  Ruth.  I was hugged.  They prayed against my sickness... but it didn't go away.  They acknowledged it as a battle -- not as a demon.  They prayed for unhindered progress.  


I took a spiritual gifts "test" that week.


According to the different tests I took, my gifts are discernment, wisdom, and evangelism.  


The woman leading my small group told me something others had only hinted at over the previous year.  That I might have the gift of prophesy.  


Good grief.  What does that even mean?


After all my negative experiences.  After all the miracles I've been witness to.  After all the directions I've received from the Lord.  After all the intervention, all the quiet, whispered words from Him.  


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A spiritual gift is exactly what it sounds like.  When we accept Christ, we receive the Holy Spirit.  Along with His presence comes a collective calling.  To make disciples of all nations.  To love the Lord our God.  To love our neighbor.  


Along with His presence, combined with our personalities and individual make up, comes a specific gift.  


As if you were born with a muscle.  A stabilizing muscle, if you will.  Deep under the surface.  You wouldn't know it was there.  Unless you used it.  And it's not strong yet.  Because you haven't.


Some of us live our entire lives using these muscles, never knowing they have a name.


The world calls us wise.


The world calls us compassionate.


The world calls us hospitable.  


The world calls us restless. 


The world calls us brave.


The world calls us naive.


Wisdom, compassion, hospitality, faith.  Apostles, evangelists, teachers.


It is not some crazy, supernatural phenomenon.  It is not a game.  It is not a measurement of your spirituality.  It is not something we give to each other.


It is a gift.


It is the very way God has called you to reach out to His children.


It is your weapon.


It is the very way God speaks to you.  Through you.  For you.


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On my wrist I have a word tattooed.


It is the greek word for "grace".


From Colossians 4:6:


"Therefore, let your conversation be full of grace and seasoned with salt so you may know how to answer everyone."


For the past year of my life I have donned the identity of a prophet -- as strange as that sounds.  My gift of discernment is there, surely.  It is the one I have spent the last year strengthening.  Asking God to develop my ears.  My eyes.  I was so resistant to this identity -- this gift -- at first.  Because it makes me weird.  Like maybe I should be eating locusts.


But tattooed on my arm is a reminder.  Of another gift, another muscle.


The call of my life.  To reach out.  


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If you have been wounded by the "church"... by people who think they understand what it means to operate in the spirit; if you associate spiritual gifts with the handling of snakes and loud, obnoxious, public displays of "healing"... with harmful words about a lack of faith... with fear and admonishment...


You are not alone.


But God wants more for you.  He wants to use you.  In ways that draw attention to Himself, that bring glory to Him, that further and advance His kingdom. 


And such gifts manifest themselves in the smallest, simplest ways.

something beautiful

I just woke up.  It is 11 am on a beautiful May morning.  I just brewed some coffee, am eating red grapes, and just opened the back patio door.  Ben Rector Pandora is playing, but besides the music, everything is quiet.


Now what?


I've been building up to this very week for quite some time now.  But now we're here.  The second week of May.  It is Monday morning and I'm sitting in my kitchen and I don't have a clue what to do with myself.


A few things I know:


God has called me to rest.


And God is faithful.


God has called me to study His word.  Specifically Ruth.


God is moving.


He's proving both of these things repeatedly.  Through provision and deep spirit feelings.  Through shut doors and even through frustrations.  I've heard Him right this time.  Although I have no idea what's coming next, I cannot shake the feeling something beautiful is about to happen.


God just smiled a little.  Shaking His head, He just corrected my verb tense.  "Something beautiful is happening, Anna."


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Friday night was my last Kid's Club.  What a beautiful thing I got to be a part of for a whole year.  They sang me happy birthday.  I turned a few shades of red.  I could not even wrap my mind around what I was seeing.  


One year before, we started with twelve little girls.


Friday night we about forty children.  Boys and girls.  Ranging from eighteen months to seventeen years old.  We had an incredible army of volunteers -- including strong, male leadership, which was absent for so long.


I could walk away.  Knowing my children would be taken care of -- that what had been started would be continued.  They didn't need me.  I smile ruefully, wondering if they ever really did.


Before the night was over one of the new little girls fell and scraped her knees.  I don't even know this little girl's name.  But I went and picked her up as tears started to stream down her face.  She tucked her head tight against my shoulder and wrapped her little arms around my neck.  And we just stood there.  


My heart knew, then, it was not the children God is calling me away from.  


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It was Thursday, I think, when I walked out of my house feeling pretty for the first time in months.  The feeling of your heart swelling in your chest a little bit... whether it's because you are wearing good-smelling perfume or your hair fell just right.  I've had a few more moments since then.  Every time I'm taken slightly off guard by them.  But here's the truth: we've been working on my insides for so long.  Maybe it's time for the outside to match.


Saturday was my 23rd birthday.  23.  The year I've always thought would change everything.  Think: Hollywood transformation scene.  (Pretty Woman, Princess Diaries, Sabrina).  I always assumed that would happen this year for me.  (I'm laughing as I type this.)  


But there is no Richard Gere or princess tiara or Harrison Ford waiting for me on the other side of this particular birthday.  I'm just 23.  I've diligently spent the last four years of my life letting Christ transform my heart and soul and spirit and mind.  Then screwing up.  And starting over.


The product of such hard labor... is a good life.  Which I have.


I am 23.


Not until I typed that very sentence, did it feel weird at all.   


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I spent the day in Nashville with some sweet girl friends.  Watching sweaty boys play their guitars, pianos, and drums; singing about the girls they loved, the girls who had hurt them, and the girls they wanted to meet.  Then listened to Matt Wertz talk about Africa.


I pray there is never a day when someone utters the word Ethiopia when I do not pause.  Recollect my breath.  And smile just a little bit.


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Yesterday I found myself in traffic behind someone with a license plate that said: HOPE.


What a word.  I find myself grasping, trying to hold on to the last bit of it I have left.  Knowing I just cannot see what's in store.  Knowing the Lord our God writes better stories than I do.  Knowing that I've been asking for some things for a long, long time.  And I haven't had anywhere to put anything new.  My hands have been too full.  My heart too exhausted.  My mind too busy.  This is what I get for asking.


"Ask and you will receive.  Seek and you will find.  Knock and the door will be opened for you..." (Matthew 7:7)


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This week, tutoring will end.


And there will be an all-worship service at church.


I will go to a new Bible study... where we are studying the book of Ruth.


I will have a few days off, which I spend reading and exercising and maybe even sleeping.


Soon... very soon... the words, which come out of me, will not be about resting.  


Maybe I will have a love story to tell you.


Or pictures to show you.


Maybe I will get dirt under my fingernails.  Maybe I will run a race.  Maybe I will simply share a recipe with you.


Who knows.


Thank you for being patient with me.    

something good this way comes

Just a sweet thought tonight.


I have no idea what comes next.


Sweet surrender.  A surprise awaits me from the hand of the Almighty.


My nature is to try and figure it out.  Like it's a mystery -- and the blueprint is hidden somewhere, waiting to be found.


But no one has lived my life before.


And hopes and dreams will not jinx beautiful things.


Who knows whose field I will find myself in.


Who knows where we will all end up.


Who knows what comes next.


I am not supposed to know these things.  I am supposed to live these things.  To trust these huge things, which I have no control over, will be taken care of.  To have ideas and be wrong.  To hear the whisper of God and follow.  To have my heart beat fast and to laugh uncontrollably.  To explore options and change my mind.


Tonight my heart felt a glimmer of hope.  My heart is reassured that I have, in fact, learned some things over the years.  And that my heart is also in tune with some of what our Father wants from me and for me.


And I spent some time walking around with Jakob Dylan singing in my ear.


Something good this way comes.

lay it down

I walked into the gym yesterday and sat down on the bleachers.  She didn't waste a minute but walked over and tucked her head against me, wrapping her arms around my waist.  Her words were muffled against my shirt, but I think she said, "Miss Anna, I don't feel good".  I rotated her little body just a bit and she laid her head down on my legs.  "What hurts?" I asked her and she whispered something about her head.  So we sat there for about twenty minutes, while I rubbed her forehead with my fingertips.  Like you do to a newborn baby to soothe them to sleep.  


This has been the week I've been anticipating.  Not without apprehension.  A week, which signifies and marks half a dozen different ends and beginnings:  


Yesterday I took my only two finals for the semester.  Now I am done.  One more year of college under my belt.  Two steps closer to my goal.  A whole year of reminders: 


That I am where I am supposed to be.


That I am smarter than I give myself credit for.


That God does impossible things all the time.


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Last night was my last night at Serve the City in the east end.  After a year of spending every single Tuesday on Second Street, I wrapped things up last night.  Not without a few tears.  And in one more glorious, sweet gesture -- after a gray day full of rain -- God parted the clouds and stopped the rain right on time. 


I learned things about the world, about God, about people, and about myself while serving with the team in the east end.  I was witness to miracles.  And God used that little, forgotten neighborhood to grow something inside of me.  Something, which might grow to be powerful and certainly has become a very part of who I am.


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Friday night will be hardest of all.  Hands down.  


A year ago a group of little girls got together in the medical clinic.  Eating pizza and making Mother's Day cards.  I remember walking into that clinic and being greeted by faces I wasn't familiar with yet.  But they all screamed, "Happy Birthday, Miss Anna!" 


So I would spend my twenty-second year drying tears and feeding the masses and listening to sweet, child-like revelations about Jesus and watching as "Girls Club" turned into "Kids Club".  


And suddenly a dozen turned into four dozen.  Or more.  


Something was born.  A fruit of the Spirit.  


I have broken up fights and rocked to sleep and tickled.  God has given me prophetic dreams about them.  And I have watched a particular group of middle school boys rise up, touched by the strong hand of God... perhaps to be the very ones who will break the cycle.


They are my kids.  Everyone who knows me knows I love them like my own.  


But Friday night is our one year anniversary.  The day before my birthday this year.  And for a season, I need to leave.


I won't be able to keep my self too far away.  


But somewhere along the way I fell prey to the prideful notion that these children needed me.  That Kids Club needed me.  That the east end needed me.  That anyone at all needed me.  


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Even tutoring, which was the one thing I was going to stubbornly hold on to, ends next week.  I was under the impression it lasted until the end of the school year in June.  But next Wednesday is our last day together.


Through that, God has made Himself quite clear.


Anna, you will rest.  Come.  Let's be done for a while.


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Saturday I turn 23.  I remember being in elementary school and watching the people in their twenties, thinking they were old.  They were adults.  They had it all together.  I remember thinking that I would "arrive" when I turned 23.  Surely it would be the best year of my life.  For whatever reason.


That remains to be seen.  Perhaps 23 will be a spectacular year.


But Saturday will mark the beginning of a resting season for me.  


A furlough.  


A sabbatical.


A season of filling up.  Of renewing.


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When I decided not to go on the World Race, I felt God was calling me to pour out in one place.  Invest was the word He laid on my heart.  I didn't hear wrong.


But you can only pour out when you have something to give. 


And I am empty.


Exhausted.  Stretched too thin.  


God's been whispering in my ear for quite some time.  About how thirsty I am.  About how much I need Him to be more than I'm letting Him be.  About how I need to slow down.


Had I listened earlier, I might not need such a dramatic break.  Such a long one.


But I've been running on empty.  


And He is calling me to come and lie in between His shoulders for a while.  


He's not calling me to a season of sleep.  Or a season of laziness.  


But a season of abiding.  He's been pruning.  Pulling weeds.  Raining down.  And it's time to grow in Him for a while... so that through me He can continue to bear fruit.  (John 15)


He is the great Gardener.  


And I am His garden.


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God is good, my friends.  


He knows me well enough to know that I need a good timeline.  Chronologically I need things to line up.  He's calling me to lay it all down.  To surrender.  To recognize that He doesn't need to use me.  He wants to use me.  But He doesn't depend on me.


So He called me to finish well.  To wrap things up nice and neatly.  To lay it down in a safe place.


As I've said before, I have a feeling, perhaps in a different capacity, He will lead me back to it.  


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So we're almost done.


I have no idea what to do with myself.


Empty-handed I walking with heavy, tired feet to where I see my Father waiting for me.

He's extended His hand.


And He's singing something over me I can't yet understand.


“Let the beloved of the LORD rest secure in him, for he shields him all day long, and the one the LORD loves rests between his shoulders.” (Deut 33:12)

p.s.

oh.

by the way.

did i mention how hard this is going to be for me?

no?

this is going to be hard.

situationally aware

My last day of class was yesterday.  I feel like I've been doing this forever.  But that last day never gets old.  When you walk out of class for the last time, look around, and realize you survived.  You did what you thought you couldn't do.  You thought there wasn't going to be enough money.  You thought you weren't intelligent enough.  Just when you thought you were too tired.


Suddenly you're done.  And you did well.


What's interesting about the end of this semester for me is it also signifies the end of a season.  A very long, beautiful, hard, dirty, growing season.


God has been giving me lots of pictures lately.  Pictures of gardens and tall towers.  


Lots of words too.


Concrete.  Consistent.  Congruent.  Cultivate.  Reinforce.  Rest.  Thirst.  Sabbath.  Continuity.


I have renamed my blog just for the sake of this new season.


In Medias Res means "in the very middle of things".  For so long this has been my story.  I have been right in the very middle.  I've been on the front lines of battle, getting dirty, and pouring myself out.


Especially this year.  


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A few months ago my car broke down on the side of the road -- blowing steam and overheating.  While I waited on the side of the road, with my hood up, a man wearing sunglasses walked up to me and asked if I needed any water.  He meant water to use as coolant.  You know, to put in the car.  


But my spirit registered his words as something much deeper.  When I went to church, just a few minutes later, my spirit's reaction was confirmed by Jon's words.  A sermon about being a spiritual zombie -- about being dry and thirsty.  


And about the living water Jesus has to offer.


I am so tired.  And so thirsty.


A tower, which has been built tall and wobbly.  Like a Jenga tower: in desperate need of reinforcement.


I am a garden in a cultivation season.  Needing rain and weed-pulling and lots of extra nutrients.


But I didn't make any changes.  In was in the full swing of things.  Too much momentum to quit.  


I can just imagine God waiting patiently as I tried to keep going about my business.  While I was coming up with things to do.  Hitting roadblock after roadblock.  Jumping hurdles and continuously losing energy.


I'd complain to Him about being exhausted.  And there He was, with His arms crossed over his chest, nodding slowly.  He knew.  "It's time to stop for a while..."


Anna.


Anna.


He gave some wise words to a friend the other day.  I was crying to her, telling her some of my recent struggles.


About how I wanted something to be proud of.  About the shame and embarrassment I'd been hiding about changing my mind about the World Race.  About wanting to be a part of the harvest.  About pride.  About loneliness.  About ministry.  About exhaustion.


She looked at me and said, 


"Anna, you are a builder.  Everything you have, you've created.  Some people are handed things, some people have their lives formed for them.  You've had to make something out of nothing.  This life you have, these passions of yours, have been cultivated by you and by God.  No wonder you're tired."


It felt good to hear these words.  To have someone recognize how hard I have worked to get here.  To have this explanation for why it has taken me so freaking long to get to this point.  I have had to work long and hard.  And will continue to have to work long and hard.  By the grace of God I am who I am... and by the grace of God I will not remain so.


There are some who have worked longer and harder than I have.  So many who have so much less.  So many who envy this life I lead.  Because, in all honesty, this is a good life.  This is a good, good life.  And despite everything, I wouldn't change a thing.


I am a builder.


She paused.  


"But your hands are full.  And if you want to pick anything else up at all, you're going to have to lay something down."


The Spirit, I think, had been hanging out under my arms for some time.  Waiting for a verbal word like that to reach my ears.  I felt Him punch my arm.  "I told you so..." He whispered, in the gentle, gracious way only the Spirit can.  "I've been trying to tell you exactly what Bonnie just told you.  Will you please listen now?  Come to me..."


It's been a few weeks since then.  The end is now imminent.  


He is calling me.  Standing just a little way off in the distance, beckoning me and calling my name.  On a new horizon.  Waiting on me.  


So it's just about time.  


One more Tuesday.  A 1 year anniversary.


Then I will fold up all this very neatly.  Smooth out the wrinkles.  Put it away in a safe place.


Because He's not calling me to quit, or to abandonment.


He's calling me to rest for a little while.


He's calling me to lay it down.


To reinforce my identity and abide in Him.  To be congruent in the way I love Him, to be consistent in the way I pursue Him.  To root and establish myself in Him (A concrete foundation).  To fill up with the living water He's offering.  To learn the unforced rhythms of grace.  He's cultivating a gentle, gracious, Christ-like spirit in me.  Writing a story of continuity on the tablet of my heart.  


A story of love and risk. 


So I will spend this next season doing just that.  Whatever it looks like.  Studying the Word.  Reading books.  Weeding gardens.  Running races.  Building community and accountability.  


Time to drop into a lower gear.  No more hyper-activity.  No more over-scheduling.  No more bitter exhaustion.  


Who knows what might happen?  With my hands free.  With my hours less accounted for.  With my mind more open.  I anticipate beauty and some restlessness.  I am allowing God room to move (because, in His sovereignty, He does not force Himself on us).  I am turning down the volume so I can hear Him speak; I am clearing out space.  Space and room to breathe.  Maybe we'll do a little dancing.  Maybe, at the end, He will lead me right back to the place I left my heart.  Maybe He'll give me something brand new.  


Here I am.  Pressing in.


Something beautiful is about to happen.  

Someone Else's Shoes

April weather in Kentucky has been ridiculous.  In the last week alone I have seen worse storms and more funnel clouds than I have in my entire life combined.

As I've said before, they don't really scare me -- these storms.  Even this morning, I slept straight through three tornado warnings.

This makes me think of the apartment Liza and I had over off Centre Parkway a few years ago.  The fourplex backed up to the Tates Creek Country Club (so ironic)... and the neighborhood's storm warning system was located (what sounded like) right outside my window.  The first night I was awoken from a dead sleep by the sound of a loud man's voice echoing in my room... well, to say I was terrified is an understatement.

But I just got a phone call from my sweet Olivia.  Who is home by herself.  She just had to go to the basement... alone.  I also got text messages from a few teachers who are hunkered down in hallways and basements with dozens of scared children.  And even one from my mom, also a teacher: "That was wild, huh?"

What in the world?  I am sitting on the couch, listening to Ben Rector, drinking coffee, and working on my last assignment for the semester.  No sirens.  No thunder.  Just rain and gray skies.  The storms the others are experiencing are not a reality for me.  It is hard for me to understand their fear.

And I'm thinking this morning about how this is how most of us operate.  We are not being intentionally selfish.  Or maliciously self-interested.  I don't think most of us assume the world revolves around us.  As a matter of fact, some of us are painfully aware of the rest of the world.

But I wonder if sometimes this is how it works: I am here.  In my house.  In America.  And I just did a load of laundry and made a pot of coffee and ate an apple out of a refrigerator.  While my sister about forty miles away is crying in a basement by herself because a storm is quickly overtaking my hometown.

How easily I could forget that she's scared.  How easily I could look outside my window and see the skies clearing up and just curse all the puddles and mud.  And not let my mind wander to those who are being besieged by a dangerous flood.

Not because I don't care about them.  But because it's not my reality.  It takes a great deal of intentionality to be truly empathetic and aware of something -- of the someones, of the circumstances -- which are not directly in front of you.

Remember the saying -- something about walking in someone else's shoes?  It's the same concept.

If you aren't poor.

If you aren't sick.

If you have a home.

If you have clean drinking water.

If you have a family.

If you have a job.

If you have Jesus.

It is so easy to forget there are people who,

Cannot feed their children.

Who can't get out of bed.

Who have been laid off work.

Who are hiding in basements, seeking refuge from the storm.

Who have no idea what hope even is.

And so I'm wondering this morning... what this looks like for us.  Because I don't think the point is to assume the fear.  Returning to fear, returning to desperation, returning to hunger usually doesn't do anything to help the fearful, the despairing, or the hungry.

But I do think we are called to go find them.

I am not afraid.  But I see that you are.  And I love you enough to reach my hand down into the very mess that is your fear, your storm, and help you.  


I don't know what that looks like for you.  Maybe it's about sacrifice.  Maybe it's time you stepped foot outside of your own little world.    Maybe it's about sharing what you have.  Maybe it's about using your gifts and your talents and your excess to reach out.

Because it's tempting once you get to that safe place to stay there.

Don't stay there.

Please.

Now that you know where it is... this place of safety, of refuge... please go get others.  Now that you know the way, go show those who still don't.

You will be better for it.  Because those who are in the middle of the storm, whatever storm it is, know something about the grace and protection and provision of God that you might not know.  That you might have forgotten.

And on the way to go find them -- whoever they are -- you just might find yourself running next to the Savior.

Who knows fear, but is no longer afraid.  Who knows hunger, but is no longer hungry.  Who knows death, but is alive.

Who is carrying a flashlight and rope and calling the names of the children who are lost.

a daydream

Today I am day dreaming about sitting down and eating a full meal.  That I cooked.  At a table.  With people I love.

Or going to the movie theater.

I am daydreaming about sitting down and reading a book.  That has nothing to do with symbolic interaction or cognitive behavior therapy or advocacy.

In ten days I will be done.

Let's have dinner.

Storm

I remember the storms, which used to roll through my hometown when I was a little girl.  The storm siren in Kroger would go off and our basement would flood.  We kept tan, plastic lawn chairs on the front porch.  


And that's where Dad would sit.


Watching.  


Until the wind started blowing so hard the rain got the porch wet.


And then he'd watch for just a little bit longer.


I don't think I had ever watched a storm like that without him.


Until the other night.  


I was in a room filled with about thirty-some children.  And we started getting phone calls and texts from UK and the National Weather Service.  There was a storm capable of producing tornadoes.  Headed our way.


So we piled kids into cars.  Rushed them home.  As rain pelted down, it was more like hail than anything.  As the wind picked up, the lightening and thunder hit and boomed at the same time.  The sky swirled into an ominous green-gray color.


All kids were taken home.  But a few of the adults decided to wait the storm out at the clinic.  


In other words... we decided to wait out the storm in the parking lot of the clinic.


I opened the big, gray door to the medical clinic when I heard Ryan pull up.  


The rain had stopped.


Everything was eerily still.


I watched in awe and wonder as the very clouds began to spin over my head.


Like cotton candy.  Thin, wispy, white clouds got tangled up in each other and accumulated... growing, dropping closer to the ground.


It never really occurred to me to even go inside.


I watched as the clouds raced across the sky.  Thicker, deeper clouds getting caught in the rotation.


Until ...


There it was.


A funnel cloud.  


We were laughing nervously.  Taking a few pictures.


One of our older kids, who had stayed behind at the clinic with us, walked slowly back to the clinic mumbling something about how the only thing he was worried about was that we were almost out of pizza.


And all I could think about was my dad.  


About how I wanted to be watching this storm with him.  I knew he'd love it.  


I can't remember ever being scared of a storm when I was watching it with him.


I can't remember a time -- sitting on those tan, plastic lawn chairs as the painted wooden porch started to bead with rain water and the mournful siren wailed over the wind and thunder -- when I was afraid.


And it was yesterday I made the connection.  Drew the parallel.  


Between the storm I'm currently living in...


And my Heavenly Father.


Who, I can just imagine, has pulled two lawn chairs up to the edge of His shelter.  Our feet are getting wet and the ground beneath us is shaking from the thunder.


But we are watching this storm together.  Something that terrifies others, an event which sends most people into inner rooms and basements to hide.  He and I sitting here.  Together.


Riding out the storm together.  Seeking the beauty.


He's not enjoying this thunderous, torrential season in my life.  But He's allowing it.  


In the words of my sweet sister, our Father in Heaven is big enough to create the storm.  He is absolutely big enough to stop it.


If He needs to.


But He doesn't need to yet.  


So we're sitting together on the proverbial porch.  Watching the world around us turn strange colors and the clouds spin in sugary circles.  In His shelter.  In His shadow.  


And I am not scared.  

Bermane

Bless his heart.

This is a video taken by my friend John Black in Haiti...

In just a few short months I might have a chance to meet this child.

And my heart just explodes every time I see all that light in his little face.

Oh that we might all be so full of joy.

4/11/11

I just spent the last few hours in something akin to sabbath.

Now I am sitting with the back door open, watching a storm roll in.  Literally, as if something dark and heavy was spilled.  And the puddle is spreading across the sky.

I feel a little guilty for just sitting here.  I have no motivation.  I should be doing school work.  I should be working on a policy paper, reading a few books, and trying to understand equilibrium, supply, and demand.

But I'm not.

I am painfully aware of how much I need rest.  My body is craving sleep.  But not just sleep.  Stillness.  Bigness.  Space.

I need room to breathe.

I feel like all my ideas and thoughts and feelings are crammed into one square foot in my brain.  And I don't have room to rearrange any of it.  Inside of myself ...

Well.  Here comes the rain.

And the wind.

Hello, spring.

Lord Jesus, speak to me.

I have been deeply discouraged lately.  In the midst of chaos and routine change, the enemy has tried to hijack my spirit.

Like a weed in my garden.

Choking the harvest that's growing.  Smothering my hope.

So I'm going to sit here for a few minutes.

My Sabbath hour.

Lord Jesus, come.

What do you want from me?

harvest cycle

I'm not sure what just happened.
But I was sitting in Economics this morning and God told me I was a garden.
And now I'm sitting in the lounge for the social work college.
And He told me I was in the Harvest Cycle.
I've been prepared, planted.  I am being cultivated.

People, the next step is harvest.

The next step is harvest!

Do you understand what this means?

First of all it means I need to learn to praise God even when I feel like I'm in a desert.  Because, let's face it, I am the most discouragable person in the mid-Atlantic.  But I see small things.  Like dove earrings.  And hear small words.  Like continuity. 

And truth is being poured into me like water.

About His love and His consistency and His strength.  About how He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.

And the continuity of story I am craving... is there. 

I have my fifth "C" word.

Cultivate. 

Bless it.  My heart just exploded.

Continuity

I was having a bad day.  These seemed to be fairly frequent lately, and I was resorting back to the truth I learned a few years ago, that God not only wants to change our lives He wants to change our day.

So before I went into work I stopped at Starbucks. I sat down with a cup of coffee and my journal and began to just pour out my frustrated heart to Papa God.  I was pissed.  And I wanted Him to know. 

I wanted Him to speak in a new way... because I had adapted to His touch.  I was taking the wind for granted. It was my fault.  But I wanted Him to do a new thing.

And as I was talking to Him, in the middle of the busyness of Starbucks, above the drone of dozens of voices I heard a word.

Concrete.

Out of nowhere.  Like someone had just reached into a conversation and extracted this one, hard word. 
And then handed it to me.

"Hey, did you drop this word?  I think it belongs to you."

I wrote the word down.

A few seconds later, incongruent fell to the floor.  With a loud smack.  I felt the Spirit pick up the old, familiar word, breaking it in two, and offering it to me as congruent. 

Alert and slightly bewildered, I wondered about what was happening.  I had been praying for open ears.  Asking God to speak in new ways.  Here He was then, in the middle of my chaos and pity, isolating syllables and "C" words.  Effectively stealing my attention.

Consistent.

My pen paused on my paper.  This was a joke, right?  I was making things up now.  But I knew the significance behind these words.  They were resonating with my Spirit and I knew they were mine.  "C" words with my name written all over them.

I got ready to go to work.  I closed my journal got ready to stand up and leave.  Then I heard it.

My fourth word.

Continuity.

I knew the basic meaning of the word.  But to say I was confused by the whole experience was an understatement.  And so I texted a friend and my sister and asked for the exact definition of the word.

Consistent whole.  Edurance.  Permanence. 

My heart was flooded.

Absolutely flooded. 

I put all four words in the pockets of my heart.

I knew God would do something with them.  I knew He was doing something with them.  Very rarely does He introduce me to His work as He's first starting.  Papa God gets a good head start, breaks some ground, finds a rhythm.

And then taps me on the shoulder. Come look at this.  I think you'll like it.

I still don't know what my words mean.  The definitions are clear, but their implications on my life are not.

I stopped today to look up the word continuity again.  I took a deeper look and found that it has to do with story.

According to a quick article I found on wikipedia (researchers, judge me):  "Most productions have a script supervisor on hand whose job is to pay attention to and attempt to maintain continuity across the chaotic and typically non-linear production shoot. This takes the form of a large amount of paperwork, photographs, and attention to and memory of large quantities of detail, some of which is sometimes assembled into the story bible for the production. It usually regards factors both within the scene and often even technical details including meticulous records ... All of this is done so that ideally all related shots can match, despite perhaps parts being shot thousands of miles and several months apart. It is a less conspicuous job, though, because if done perfectly, no one will ever notice."

Oh.

Conrete.  Congruent.  Consistent.  Continuity.

Welcome to a new chapter.

Grow

I haven't written in a long, long time.  

At the risk of saying the same old thing, the same old way, I just put the proverbial pen away.  Waiting.  Waiting for an overflow of words and wisdom.  Something that would relieve me and encourage you.

But I've waited a long time and nothing's come.  

A few weeks ago I moved out of my house.  Packed up at Trout Court and moved to the other side of town.  My last day at the office was March 25th.  And after 6 years of diligent work for them, my boss didn't show up on my last day.  So much for goodbyes.  

I've started a new job.  I think God's mission was to humble me, to get me moving, to make me laugh.  At the end of the day now, I am exhausted and my feet hurt and I stink.  But the last time I had a job like this, some beautiful things happened.  And I can't help but think about a prophecy a friend spoke over me.  About how through my ministry I would provide something sweet for people.  

I have four weeks left of classes.  This has not been a great semester.  I feel like I've just barely been scraping by - holding my breath and ducking my head and just going for it.  There is only one class where I feel like I learned something new.  But it is through this set of classes that I have found myself spending time with a group of kids from elementary schools around Lexington.  

I did all the paper work a few months back to become a substitute teacher / para educator here in Lexington.  I started getting calls from the Subfinder and was terrified to even answer them.  My uncle warned me that if I didn't start accepting some jobs, that they'd quit calling me.  So the next morning when they didn't call me, I got nervous.  I was packing up the last of my things at Trout Court that evening, having just finished praying nonchalantly and telling Jesus that I was hurting for money.  I was broke and I told Jesus so.  I didn't ask Him to fix it.  I just told Him.  Like I might tell you.  Not necessarily expecting circumstances to change.

I got in the car and the phone rang.  I answered.  Subfinder.  I decided to see just how the process would work.  So I put in my ID, followed procedure.  They wanted a para for kindergarten on Friday.  A day I had off of work.  At an elementary school right beside my yogurt shop.

Funny.  I told Jesus what I needed.

He knew I needed something else entirely.

I really think God's sneaky plan, His favorite M.O. is to use one thing to achieve something else entirely.

-

So here I am.  

This seems to be my favorite phrase these days.  Here I am.  There doesn't seem to be much more to say than that.  There are days when I look around and have to remind myself, "things will not always be this way".  

I will not always be single.

I will not always be in school.

I will not always be so pressed for time.

I will always be poor.  But maybe not always this poor.

So here I am.

With what feels like a brand new life.

And with this brand new life, I need brand new words.  

I am craving the day when I have time to go to the gym.  And the first Farmers Market on a Saturday morning.  

But I am right in the middle of God's will.  I can feel it.  He's emptying me.  Stretching me.  Giving me opportunities to grow.  He's making me brand new.

This is not a breaking season.  This is a growing one.  He's doing some spring cleaning in my heart, making room for new things.  Letting me trying them on for size.

He washed some dirty windows in my heart when a group of small prophets came barreling through the door of the church last week and the little ones threw their arms around my waist.  

And on Friday, when I walked into an elementary school to step in as a para for a kindergarten class, the Lord broke the lock on an old door.

Something I thought I could never do.  Something I thought I wasn't good enough to do.  Something I was too scared to try.  

Papa God bent low and gave my a shoulder a loving shove.  The door opened, exposing rooms and light I had never seen before.  "See?  I told you, we can do this."

Who knows what's next.  Really, I have no clue.  

I know that Haiti is in my future.

I know that my poor heart is craving space.  Room to breathe.  I want to spread my arms out and not touch a wall with either hand.  

I'll come back and tell you more about this later.  I have some shame and pride and desire to process.  Words haven't come yet to help explain to you my sudden change of plans in the last few weeks.   


Growth is happening.


On the other side of a season of breaking and a season of healing and a season of abiding.


And now spring is here.